Last month, I had the chance to attend the intimate press preview of How to Get Away From My Toxic Family at Cinema 76 in Quezon City. To me, with all the secret photos taken by the production team inside the cinema that prove how many times I shed tears, the movie doesn’t just tell a story—it carries with it the heart and plight of a lot of Filipinos. At its core, this heartfelt movie is about sacrifice, boundaries, and the often-overlooked emotional labor of Filipino breadwinners, especially those working overseas.
Zanjoe Marudo with producer and veteran showbiz reporter Ogie Diaz at the press preview
Zanjoe Marudo here plays OFW chef Arsenio who comes home from Dubai, United Arab Emirates with dreams of finally living his life—settling down with his long-time fiancée and starting anew with a restaurant business plan. But instead of a fresh start, he was welcomed with unresolved issues and messy family dynamics that force him to once again put himself last. Does that sound familiar? For many Filipinos, this story hits way too close to home.
Relatable, Raw, and Real
There’s something universally relatable about the movie’s message—whether you’re Filipino or not. It portrays a reality many in Asia and immigrant communities worldwide can relate to: children stepping into the role of provider, often at the expense of their own dreams.
The film doesn’t rely on melodrama to pull you in. Instead, it builds a world so grounded and raw that it almost feels like you’re peeking into a real family’s living room. It’s voyeuristic in the best way—offering an intimate view into the quiet battles and loud sacrifices that happen behind closed doors.
A Strong Ensemble Cast with Standout Newcomers
Zanjoe Marudo shines in the lead role, drawing you in with a performance that’s both restrained and emotionally charged. His portrayal earns your sympathy, your anger, and your hope—all at once. You’ll root for him, cry with him, and feel the frustration when he’s forced to clean up messes he didn’t make. Be prepared to get annoyed by an effective cast!
Seasoned actors like Susan Africa, Richard Quan, Zanjoe Marudo, Sherry Lara, and Nonie Buencamino (special participation) deliver their roles with depth, but what makes the film even more compelling is the strong lineup of new faces. These emerging actors make a mark with their natural, nuanced performances. Their presence elevated the movie especially toward the end. Watch out for the young girl in the movie who played Arsenio’s niece!
The Little Things That Matter
What sets this film apart is its attention to the small details: the looks exchanged at the dinner table, the passive-aggressive comments, the silence that says everything, and even the house elements and items used. These moments and props are where the movie’s heart beats strongest.
The cinematography, score, and soundtrack all work harmoniously to enhance the film’s emotional pull. Nothing feels overdone—just right.
A Mirror and a Wake-Up Call
How to Get Away from My Toxic Family isn’t afraid to say what many are scared to admit: sometimes, family can be the reason people stay stuck. And while it may ruffle a few feathers, that discomfort is the beginning of deeper reflection and, hopefully, healing.
Even if you’re not an OFW or the main provider in your family, this film will still leave a mark. It opens your eyes to the inner battles many loved ones face quietly—especially those who carry the weight of expectation simply because they “made it” or “have enough.”
Watch With an Open Heart
Produced by Ogie Diaz’s OgieD Productions and KreativDen How to Get Away From My Toxic Family is a hug and a plea all at once. It is an emotional ride you didn’t know you needed—one that urges us to rethink what we owe our families and what we owe ourselves.
I walked out of the mini theater feeling moved, enlightened, and—most importantly, more compassionate to breadwinners. I hope many more get to feel the same when it hits cinemas this July 30. Watch it with an open mind, an open heart, and maybe a pack of tissues too. Sometimes, healing begins with a movie.
